I Have A Strange Question

Lots of background: the unsinkable Laura Baumbach is starting a GLBT chapter for RWA in the hopes of getting RWA to deign to acknowledge GLBT romance. While I heartily support her effort, I've never thought of joining RWA because I don't think of myself as a romance writer. But then, after thinking about it, while I don't write in the genre style of romance, my stories are about relationships, and more often than not, they end up happily for now (after lots and lots of hot, steamy sex). So I'm throwing this question out as I try to figure out if I should join the revolution or just wave my pompons from the sidelines: Do you read my stories for the sex or for the relationship?